Colic Support for Babies in Far Hills & Somerset County, NJ

Gentle Holistic Guidance for Parents Navigating Colic, Crying, and Digestive Discomfort

Gentle, holistic care for babies who struggle to settle

As a mother and as a chiropractor who cares deeply about families, I know how emotional and overwhelming it can feel when your baby cries and you can’t seem to soothe them. Colic can leave you exhausted, unsure, and wondering if you’re doing something wrong.

I want you to know this from the very beginning: you are not alone, and this is not your fault.
There are ways to support your baby’s comfort, digestion, and nervous system — gently, naturally, and with so much compassion.

What Is Colic?

Colic is a pattern of intense, prolonged crying in an otherwise healthy baby. These babies are often fed, clean, and cared for — yet they cry in a way that feels different, louder, harder to settle, and often unpredictable.

Colic isn’t a disease. It’s a combination of behaviors that tell us a baby’s nervous system and digestive system are still finding their rhythm in the outside world.

How Much Crying Is “Too Much”?

A commonly used guide is the “Rule of 3”:

  • Crying for 3 hours a day

  • At least 3 days a week

  • For 3 weeks or more

But I want you to trust your intuition. If your baby’s crying feels excessive… if it’s disrupting feeding, sleep, or your sense of calm… if you feel stretched thin emotionally — that is reason enough to seek support.

What Causes Colic?

Colic is usually a blend of different factors, including:

  • Digestive immaturity

  • Gas and intestinal tension

  • Sensitivity to certain foods (breastmilk or formula)

  • Microbiome imbalance

  • Overstimulation

  • Stress or difficulty with settling

  • Tension from pregnancy or birth

  • Exposure to toxins

I look at the whole picture — not just the crying — to understand what your baby’s body may be telling us.

The Stress–Gut Connection

A baby’s digestive system and nervous system are deeply intertwined. When a baby is overwhelmed, overstimulated, or sensing stress in the environment, the gut responds.

Tension, spasms, and motility changes can all contribute to the discomfort that shows up as crying.
This is why supporting both the digestive system and the nervous system can make such a meaningful difference.

The Role of Probiotics

Probiotics can be a wonderful tool to support your baby’s comfort. Infant-specific probiotic strains may gently help with:

  • Gas

  • Motility

  • Digestive ease

  • Microbial balance

If you are breastfeeding, your own microbiome also plays a role. I can help guide you toward options that support both you and your baby.

Supporting You Helps Support Your Baby

Your baby’s nervous system is connected to yours. When you’re depleted, overstimulated, or overwhelmed, your baby can feel that energy.
This isn’t about blame — it’s about nurturing you so you can continue nurturing your baby.

Simple practices can make a real difference:

  • Taking slow, grounding breaths

  • Getting outside for a few minutes

  • Asking someone to hold the baby while you regroup

  • Listening to calming music

  • Making sure you’re nourished and hydrated

When your nervous system heals, it helps create a calmer environment for your baby’s system to soften too.

Considering an Elimination Diet

If you are breastfeeding, sometimes removing certain foods for a short period (such as dairy, soy, gluten, or eggs) can reduce irritation in sensitive babies.

This doesn’t mean you caused the colic. It is simply one of many tools we can explore to support your baby’s digestion.

If your baby is on formula, sometimes a different formula can make a meaningful difference. It may be worth exploring whether the one you’re using is upsetting your baby’s system.

Gentle Herbal Support

With proper guidance, herbs can offer comforting support:

  • Chamomile for calming and soothing

  • Fennel for gas and gentle digestion

  • Ginger for warmth and motility

These can be used by the breastfeeding parent or in baby-appropriate preparations.

Physical Techniques That Ease Tension

Gentle touch can help relieve gas, reduce tension, and support your baby’s ability to settle.

Helpful techniques include:

  • Warm belly massage

  • Bicycle legs

  • Upright carrying

  • Skin-to-skin contact

  • Warm baths

  • Rhythmic rocking or white noise

These help the body feel safe — which is essential for digestion and soothing.

The Power of Being Outside

Nature is incredibly regulating.
A few minutes of fresh air, natural movement, and sunlight can shift your baby’s state and bring calm to both of you.
Many parents notice their babies settle more easily outdoors.

How Chiropractic Supports Babies with Colic

Birth — even the most peaceful birth — can create tension patterns in a baby’s spine, neck, and nervous system. Babies are so small, and their systems are so sensitive, that even subtle strain can affect digestion, nursing, and the ability to settle.

My approach to caring for babies is extremely gentle — using light, specific touch to support:

  • Nervous system balance

  • Comfort in the spine and cranial bones

  • Parasympathetic (“rest + digest”) function

  • Digestive ease

  • Relaxed body tension

  • Better regulation and soothing

Chiropractic doesn’t “treat” colic but it supports the nervous system, and the nervous system plays a foundational role in digestion, comfort, and settling.

Parents often tell me they notice:

  • A softer, more relaxed body

  • Easier feedings

  • Less gas tension

  • Better sleep

  • A calmer baby overall

When the body feels safe, it begins to unwind. Babies thrive with gentle, loving support.

You’re Not Alone — And You Don’t Have to Do This Without Help

If your baby is struggling with colic, excessive crying, or difficulty settling, I would be honored to walk this journey with you.

My practice in Far Hills, New Jersey serves families throughout Somerset County, including Far Hills, Bedminster, Bernardsville, Basking Ridge, and neighboring towns.

Together, we can help your baby feel more comfortable, more relaxed, and more at ease — one gentle step at a time.

You and your baby deserve support.

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